If you want a woman to fall in love with you, feed her poetry. Never fails.
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Hello. Iād like to present you evidence that this isnāt the case. Exhibit A) me. It didnāt work when I tried.
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Again. Just talk to them. Even if you have to mentally brute force yourself into starting a conversation, itāll be worth it. Thatās how I met one of my two current irl friends. I wanted to get to know her, so I walked up to her, and just talked to her. Granted that first conversation was pretty awkward, but since then weāve been pretty good friends.
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Thatās me with pretty much all my friends.
Iām pretty shy and antisocial.
maybe thatās why nobody likes me.
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Instructions unclear, built sun-like nuclear energy device that is endangering New York.
Iām certain itāll stabilize.
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If youāre looking for advice in dating youāre already doing it wrong
by that I mean- if you arenāt enough and need to augment your behavior to appeal to someone, itās not gonna work out. Just talk to whoever unfortunate girl you got your eyes on and see if thereās sparks. Donāt need a topic with two thousand posts about it if there arenāt any.
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Going off of this:
I think I can appreciate my relationship with my food and that it is a delicious nutrientā¦ like hamburgersā¦
In all seriousness I think we should honestly just appreciate the friends we have and how at least a few of them have been through thick and thin with us. I know while some of my friends are a bit more recent and donāt know my entire past I can still trust them for what they have been through with me.
My problem is just opening up to people in general. It may be easy for you, not so for social enept folks like me. I need motivation and tips because just opening up to anyone is hard yet I desire to be with someone.
Itās a hard impasse.
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You might not be ready for a rela if you cannt socia at 100% yet. Consider trying to talk to one new person a day?
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Iāll attempt that. It sounds like good practice. Thanks for the good advice.
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Iāve been a person dedicated to studying and my personal hobbies, and only that. Iāve spent most of my life as a loner, purposefully staying away from social interaction. I had been just fine like this, and tought of staying like this till the end of times.
However, my perception of who I am has recently changed, and for the first time in my life, I felt something for someone outside my family. The wierdest part is that this isnāt the first candidate Iāve met. In a funny way, it seems like multiple lasses seem to have an interest, or perhaps thatās me thinking too deeply. But one of them took me by surprise, who also happened to be the least likely one I would have tought of.
Iām afraid of this, of what Iāll become. I want to stay true to who I am, but now everything is in jeopardy, and I need guidance now. For I know not what I must do.
I donāt think this is true. Self-improvement and change is very important in a relationship. The ones that last are usually the ones where both partners not only communicate well, but also make an effort to change behaviors that might be negative and detrimental.
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No I agree with that. Iām referring to the initial courting process. IE obviously donāt pretend to be something youāre not to try to appeal to someone you arenāt dating yet. Itās miscommunication, in my opinion.You also shouldnāt be looking to people for any advice that should otherwise be common sense.
I dunno, I believe anyone whoās already in a relationship with enough sufficient communication with their partner would never bother coming here- for advice, or even worse, to complain.
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I think she may be more interested in Spiderman at this point.
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So Iāve been working at a local grocery store for about four months now, and thereās cute girl who works in the deli that Iāve been getting along with pretty well.
Now Iām not hoping for anything romantic. Learning from past experience, I know if I expect things to go any further than āgood friendā Iāll only be disappointed.
Thing is most of our interactions have been really small since we work in two seperate departments. Her a deli worker, and I a courtesy clerk. But sheās still really pleasant to talk to. Sheās a very cheerful person, and Iām definitely gonna try to get to know her as much as I can.
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Good luck!
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Good luck dude!
Donāt let yourself fall for her, though. thatās going to be super important.
If it is perfect, then maybe go for it, but only if everything lines up.
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Like I said, based off of passed experience I know getting to know someone with the hope of a potential relationship in mind it will not end well. No matter how lonely I feel my primary goal will always be to make friends with people I think are interesting. And only after Iāve known them for a while will I legitimately consider romance.
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Having you considered making a blog or a livejournal for these lengthy life updates? Just so I donāt have to scroll though all the others to maintain a solid understanding of the canon so far
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What am I your soap opera?
Though that blog idea isnāt half bad. Iāll definitely think about doing something like that.
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